Reasons Why Men Cheat After Marriage

Why do men have to cheat after marriage? Why marry in the first place when you will have to cheat anyway? Although there are some women who also committed infidelity, majority are men. Men easily fall into temptation and may cheat after marriage. But I am sure temptation isn't the only factor why men cheat after marriage.  Here are 10 factors why men cheat after marriage: 

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Lack of Emotional Connection 

Feeling emotionally disconnected from a spouse can lead individuals to seek intimacy elsewhere. This happens mostly in arranged marriages where both individuals do not personally know each other and grow emotional connection before marriage.

Desire for Variety 

Some men may seek new experiences or excitement outside the marriage. Some men are total cunts that they simply just want to try new "flavors".

Unresolved Relationship Issues 

Ongoing conflicts or dissatisfaction within the marriage can lead to infidelity as a way of coping or escaping problems. Men tend to seek comfort from other female's embrace while in the middle of a conflict with their spouse instead of doing something to fix it. 

Low Self-Esteem 

Cheating can sometimes be an attempt to boost self-esteem or feel desired and valued. Instead of talking it out with their spouse, they go ahead and sleep with several women to feel desired and boost their confidence.

Opportunity and Temptation 

Being in situations where opportunities for infidelity are readily available can increase the likelihood of cheating. As I have always been saying, men are too weak to fight temptation. 

Sexual Dissatisfaction 

A lack of sexual fulfillment in the marriage can drive some men to look for sexual satisfaction elsewhere. Why did he marry the woman in the first place when he was sexually dissatisfied? This can be solved by confiding or openly talking about the issue.

Seeking Revenge 

Infidelity can be a form of retaliation if a man feels wronged or neglected by his spouse. 

Midlife Crisis 

During a midlife crisis, some men may question their life choices and seek to recapture their youth through extramarital affairs. This happens around the 40s where midlife crisis begins.

Addiction to Sex 

Addiction to sex or thrill-seeking behaviors can lead to infidelity. This is connected to sexual dissatisfaction. 

Lack of Commitment 

A lack of true commitment to the marriage can make it easier for some men to justify cheating. When you marry a person for convenience, this would likely happen.

Emotional Immaturity 

Some men may lack the emotional maturity to handle relationship challenges constructively and resort to cheating instead. Boys, these are the kinds that women should not say "i do" to.

Peer Influence 

Social circles that condone or encourage infidelity can also play a role. When your man is surrounded by friends who tolerate infidelity or who are unfaithful themselves, he would likely follow through. 

While these reasons can provide some understanding, it is essential to recognize that infidelity is a complex issue and individual motivations can vary widely. Each situation is unique, and addressing the root causes of infidelity often requires honest, open communication and, in many cases, professional counseling.