Finding Our Wedding Motif: A Journey of Love and Inspiration

When my partner and I began planning our wedding, we quickly realized that choosing a motif was more than just a decorative decision—it was a reflection of our love story. It would set the tone for our special day, from the invitations to the floral arrangements, and even the cake. Here’s how we navigated the delightful and sometimes overwhelming process of finding the perfect wedding motif. 

 

Embracing Our Story 

The first step in our journey was to reflect on what made our relationship unique. We spent an evening cuddled up on the couch, reminiscing about our favorite memories together. From our shared love of travel to our passion for cooking, we brainstormed themes that resonated with us. Ultimately, we landed on a motif that reflects our love story - BURGUNDY, inspired by the adventures we’ve taken together and our dreams of exploring the world as a married couple. 

 

Gathering Inspiration 

Once we had our theme, it was time to gather inspiration. I dove into Pinterest, creating a board filled with ideas—from vintage postcards to maps and globes. My partner joined in, sharing images of beautiful destinations we hoped to visit. Together, we found a rich tapestry of colors, textures, and elements that spoke to our shared love of adventure. 

 

Choosing a Color Palette 

With our dreamy motif in mind, we turned our attention to color. We both adored fiery tones—think deep reds, soft browns, and hints of purple. These colors not only reflected our theme but also felt warm and inviting, perfect for the cozy celebration we envisioned. 

 

Personal Touches 

As we planned, we made a conscious effort to include personal touches that would make our wedding feel uniquely ours. Instead of traditional table numbers, we named each table after a destination we’d traveled to, complete with a photo and a short story about our experience there. This sparked conversation among our guests and brought back fond memories for us. 

 

Finding the Right Vendors 

With our motif established, we sought out vendors who could bring our vision to life. We shared our ideas with our florist, who created stunning centerpieces that incorporated local flowers with a touch of whimsy. Our invitation designer crafted beautiful stationery that featured our color palette and travel elements, setting the stage for our wedding long before the big day. 

Reflecting on the Journey 

As the wedding day approached, I felt a sense of joy knowing that our motif was more than just a theme; it was a celebration of our journey together. Every detail—down to the last decorative element—reflected who we were as a couple. When the day finally arrived, walking into our venue filled with travel-inspired decor was a surreal experience. It felt like stepping into a dream we had both envisioned. Surrounded by friends and family, it was clear that the love we poured into every decision created a day that was truly special. 

Choosing a wedding motif is a personal journey that allows you to celebrate your love story in a meaningful way. It’s an opportunity to reflect on your relationship and share those moments with your loved ones. Whether you choose a theme that’s bold and adventurous or simple and elegant, remember that it’s about what resonates with you and your partner. Embrace the process, and let your love shine through every detail!